Don't waste another minute being upset and disconnected after arguments.
A step-by-step guide to repairing after an argument; to ensure it’s resolved for good and get back to the good times.
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Things often start off about something small but somehow escalate quickly.
The dreaded past gets brought up, you blame each other for your feelings, and one of you either walks away or gets so lost in the conversation that you both leave exhausted, hoping time will heal the wounds.
You're quiet for hours or even days, giving each other one-word answers, ruminating in your anger and pain. Life eventually gets busy and you're distracted with meetings and social events, pretending everything is fine. But eventually, you're back to life as usual.
You may think the argument is over, but the emotional residue left behind resurfaces in future conversations. If you don't repair the damage from an argument, it builds into resentment and a lack of respect over time. We see this happening every day in our private coaching with couples.
The dreaded past gets brought up, you blame each other for your feelings, and one of you either walks away or gets so lost in the conversation that you both leave exhausted, hoping time will heal the wounds.
You're quiet for hours or even days, giving each other one-word answers, ruminating in your anger and pain. Life eventually gets busy and you're distracted with meetings and social events, pretending everything is fine. But eventually, you're back to life as usual.
You may think the argument is over, but the emotional residue left behind resurfaces in future conversations. If you don't repair the damage from an argument, it builds into resentment and a lack of respect over time. We see this happening every day in our private coaching with couples.
Nothing eats away at your love and respect for each other faster than things not getting resolved and repaired.
We promise you're not alone if you've thought or said:
"What are we even arguing about anymore?!"
"Maybe if we don't talk about it for a while, it'll just go away."
"We'll start making progress but then the argument gets re-triggered as soon as we try to talk through the order of events."
"I'm tired of being the one that always initiates repair."
"They'll say they're sorry but I doubt they know what they're really apologizing for."
"Maybe if we don't talk about it for a while, it'll just go away."
"We'll start making progress but then the argument gets re-triggered as soon as we try to talk through the order of events."
"I'm tired of being the one that always initiates repair."
"They'll say they're sorry but I doubt they know what they're really apologizing for."
Stop getting it wrong in the post-conflict stage.
The Making Up & Moving Forward Guide is here to simplify what can feel really complicated.
The Making Up & Moving Forward Guide is here to simplify what can feel really complicated.
The Step-by-Step Guide Provides You With:
- The exact steps you need to take to ensure the argument gets repaired (we spell it out plainly)
- How to stop the cycle of “who said what first, who did what, and why your actions were justified”
- The EXACT phrase to use when initiating repair that guarantees it starts off on a positive note
- How to ensure the same issue doesn’t come again
- Exactly how to stop invalidating each other or re-triggering the argument all over again
We've successfully taught the repair process to thousands of couples, and now you can easily get your hands on it.