Rebuild a Marriage Guide

If you plan to be married a long time, you need to work through hard seasons, course-correct, and commit to make changes.

A step-by-step guide to having the honest & productive conversations needed to start a new chapter together.

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To use a house analogy, there will be times in a marriage where you either need to do a remodel or a full demo and rebuild.

This is especially the case when there have been recurring patterns and habits that keep triggering issues from the past, further deplete an already low love account, and build emotional walls between you.

You want nothing more than to hit a reset button to start a new chapter and live a beautiful life as a family. But it really feels like you are stuck living out the same cycles.

Here's a bold truth your friends or family won't say to you:
You don't have to end your marriage to end this version of the marriage.

It is possible to end one chapter (even if it's been a brutally long chapter) and start a new one that's based on proactive communication, full love accounts, quick repair after conflicts. It takes changing your default habits and that's where we've got your backs!

Without exaggeration, this is a critical turning point for your marriage. It will further decline in satisfaction and potentially end if you do not find a way to repair and rebuild.

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In truth, this stage is more challenging that just repairing or de-escalating a single conflict. Sitting in therapy talking about the problem isn't the solution, nor do you have time for that.

You need a defined process for drawing a line in the sand, acknowledging the things holding each of you back, and accountability to follow through on new commitments.

So what are the signs that you need to rebuild your partnership?

You bring up old grudges or resentments mid-conflict.
You feel a consistent distance and disconnect between you, even when you spend time together.
You have had the thought, however fleeting, "if this is it, I don't know that I can keep doing this."

Being in a rebuild phase is hard, we know, and we have been there before, too. There is no shortcut for rebuilding. To be honest, you might also need outside support to hold you accountable to these steps.

But this guide simplifies all into the steps you WILL NEED TO take! Whether or not you are able to take them on your own is up to your willingness and commitment in this season.

The Steps to Rebuild a Marriage Guide is here to give you a clear path forward in an otherwise very uncertain time.

The Step-by-Step Guide Provides You With:

The 6 steps you will have to go through to rebuild from a difficult season of marriage.
The areas that you will need to reflect on for yourself to be ready to rebuild.
The steps that your partner will need to be willing to take with you on this process.
Examples of ways to specifically phrase each conversation so that you do not get off track (which will be easy to do when both of you have hurts that are unresolved.
The pit-falls to lookout for so that you can stay on track and not reset the hold process by rehashing all the past details.

We've successfully taught these tools to thousands of couples in private sessions and now you can easily access them on demand.